When you first start going to the gym, your focus isn’t on someone running on the treadmill. But on the person in the corner deadlifting more than you ever could with washboard abs. And when you’re comparing yourself to others, you’re constantly coming up short. Which can be defeating and make you feel uncomfortable at the gym. Two other common reasons people experience gym anxiety, deal with feeling judged, or that that you don’t belong.
Maybe you dropped accidentally dropped a barbell or tripped and fell. Then people turned to look, and you felt embarrassed thinking of what those people might have thought about you. After that, you start to doubt yourself and feel like maybe you don’t belong. It isn’t uncommon to feel anxious when you’re starting something. And there are always steps you can take to overcome the anxiety that comes with it. Overcoming gym anxiety is no different. There are steps you can take to boost your confidence, and become comfortable with going to the gym. So here are five things you can do to overcome gym anxiety.
Build your Confidence
The first step in overcoming gym anxiety is building your confidence. So here are a couple of ways you build your confidence and overcome gym anxiety:
- Do your research before going to the gym. Choose a routine and study it, practice doing the exercises at home, so you become comfortable with them. Research gym equipment ahead of time, so you’ll feel less intimated by it and confident on how to use it.
- Buy gym clothes that make you feel confident, and are easy to exercise in.
Focus on Yourself
In reality, people go to the gym to work out, not to judge others. They’re focused on their workouts and hitting goals they’ve set for themselves. To keep your mind from wandering from your workout to others. By practicing mindfulness while you’re working out. Focus on your breath, the writing on the wall, or what muscles engage when you’re doing an exercise.
Reassurance
If you find that negative thinking is the cause of your anxiety, write down your negative thoughts, and challenge them. For example, if one of your thoughts is ” I don’t belong here” challenge it by asking yourself:
- Am I jumping to conclusions?
- What’s the best thing that could happen?
- Is this way of thinking helping me to achieve my goals?
By challenging negative thoughts, you’ll see how much of your thinking is inaccurate, exaggerated, or inclined towards a negative view of things. And you can reassure yourself of the truth.
Bring a Friend
You don’t have to take on gym anxiety by yourself. Reach out to a friend, they can be new to working out, or someone with experience. When trying something new, it helps to have someone by your side. Things will become less intimidating, and you’ll feel more relaxed when anxiety arises. Together you can develop a workout plan, support, and motivate each other.
Go to the gym and don’t give up
Keep going to the gym, the more often you go, the easier it’ll get, and the more comfortable you’ll feel. Change doesn’t happen overnight, and everyone has to start somewhere. Even the fittest person at the gym was once a beginner and may have felt anxious about going. But by understanding the root of anxiety and challenging it, you can turn going to the gym into a positive experience.
If you like this then check out these posts Getting Started At The Gym and How to Stay Motivated to Achieve Your Fitness Goals!
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I personally have experienced anxiety when going to the gym. Mainly because you feel like everyone is watching you, and you look like an amateur using the equipment. I do like the top of researching the use of the equipment prior to going to the gym. I will use that on in the future.
I can relate. I felt the same way when I first started going to the gym. Researching the equipment helps out and certainly worth trying. Thanks for stopping by.
Ok the thought of going to the gym freaks me out because I naturally think everyone will be watching me😬, which is the same attitude I have when giving speeches😩 You bring up a great point. People are going to be focused on what they’re doing, not necessarily paying you any attention. So you’re right, it’s important to focus on yourself. Being mindful and zoning in on yourself really makes a difference in tuning the world out.
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I feel the same way, especially when I trip when I’m running on the treadmill. Then I look around and realize no one even noticed or cared. So that’s helped with changing my perspective.
Consistency is definitely key to getting over that anxiety. I was also partly anxious due to not knowing how the machines work like you mentioned. Thankfully at planet fitness, they had diagrams on the sides so I didn’t look too clueless doing them 😆😆👌 great post Angela!
Definitely! The Planet Fitness that I’m a member of got an upgrade over the summer. So when they reopened, there ware new machines I didn’t know how to use. So, I felt anxious about using the new machines. But, thanks for the diagrams and staff, I figured it out. Thanks for stopping by.